Last night I was reading a post at
Pursuing Titus 2 about having too many toys and how gift giving can create a lot of clutter in out homes. Her husband suggested giving experiences instead of more toys. I thought "Wow! This is a great idea!"
We all know the drill...it's Christmas time or birthday time or any other gift giving time and you get "that" call. It's your mother, mother in law, sister, sister in law, friend, etc.
"Hi, I was just calling to see what
(enter your child's name here) would like for
(enter gift giving occasion here)"
Ugh...what is there to get? More dolls, more toy cars? More
Lego's, more tea sets? More stuff???
If one child gets one gift from 2 sets of grandparents, 2 aunts and uncles, a couple of friends, and of course mom and dad you've already got 8 - 10 toys coming into your house.
Now, how many children do you have? I have 4 so that would mean
32 - 40 new toys!
Now, here is how I propose to
use other's money wisely. Does you child
really need that many toys or would they benefit from making memories with you?
There are so many activities my kids would love to do but we don't because of the cost. We just don't have lots of extra money for all the fun things in our area.
What if your relatives gave gift cards to do the fun things you all want to do instead of getting more things? They are going to spend X amount of $$ no matter what you tell them your child wants. Why not ask them to spend it on an activity for your child?
I came up with a list of things we love to do that would make GREAT gift ideas.
If your child gets one of these gifts for their birthday and the other kids haven't gotten a gift yet, just put it in a safe place and when everyone has a gift card to the same place then you're ready for your outing.
Be sure to take lots of pictures and share them with the gift giver and let them know what a great time your family had thanks to their
generosity!
What do you think about this idea? Would it go over well at your house? Do you have any ideas to add to the list? I'd love to hear them.